Burnout is real. How to recover from it?

A person stress with work and experising burnout
Published Date: 05/03/2025

Nick Koyang

Nick is an AASW Accredited Social Worker with experience in both acute mental health settings and private practice. He supports clients face-to-face in Melbourne, as well as online across Australia and internationally.

Understanding Different Types of Burnout and How to Recover

Burnout is more than just feeling tired or overworked—it is a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion that can significantly impact daily life and overall well-being. While often associated with workplace stress, burnout can stem from multiple sources, including personal expectations, unresolved trauma, and external stressors beyond work itself. Understanding the different types of burnout and learning how to manage them is key to preventing long-term emotional distress.

Types of Burnout in Work Settings

1. Overload Burnout

This occurs when individuals push themselves too hard, often due to high expectations, perfectionism, or the pressure to achieve. It is common in high-demand professions, corporate roles, and caregiving positions where people overwork themselves to meet unrealistic goals.

Signs: Chronic exhaustion, irritability, reduced productivity, and frequent frustration.

2. Under-Challenged Burnout

Not all burnout comes from excessive work. Some experience burnout due to a lack of engagement, meaning, or challenge in their roles. When work becomes monotonous or does not align with personal values, it can lead to disengagement and emotional fatigue.

Signs: Low motivation, boredom, dissatisfaction, and a sense of stagnation.

3. Neglect Burnout

This type of burnout arises from feeling unsupported, unappreciated, or unable to meet expectations. It can result from workplace toxicity, lack of leadership, or personal insecurities about performance.

Signs: Feeling helpless, experiencing imposter syndrome, self-doubt, and emotional withdrawal.

4. Trauma-Induced Burnout

Burnout can also be triggered by unresolved trauma or past experiences that affect self-worth and work habits. Some people react to past criticism or failures by imposing unrealistic self-induced pressure, leading to chronic stress.

Signs: Perfectionism, mood swings, frustration, overworking, and difficulty setting boundaries.

5. Work-From-Home Burnout

Working from home presents unique challenges, such as blurred boundaries between personal and professional life, isolation, and increased digital fatigue. Without clear separation from work, employees may struggle to disconnect, leading to chronic stress and reduced motivation.

Signs: Difficulty maintaining focus, a sense of isolation, longer working hours without breaks, and an inability to switch off from work responsibilities.

a person on a hike to get relief from burnout at work

Self-Help Strategies to Combat Burnout

While professional help is encouraged, there are practical self-care strategies to manage and recover from burnout:

1. Set Boundaries

One of the most important steps in preventing burnout is learning to set clear boundaries between work and personal life. Overcommitting or failing to say no can lead to exhaustion and resentment. Try setting firm work hours, avoiding after-hours emails, and ensuring personal time is respected. For those working from home, create a dedicated workspace and set a structured routine to maintain work-life balance.

2. Practise Self-Compassion

Burnout is often linked to self-imposed pressure and perfectionism. Practising self-compassion means acknowledging your limits and treating yourself with the same kindness you would offer a friend. Replace negative self-talk with affirmations and remind yourself that making mistakes is part of growth.

3. Engage in Mindfulness & Relaxation

Mindfulness techniques such as meditation, deep breathing, or progressive muscle relaxation can help reduce stress and improve focus. Even short moments of mindfulness throughout the day—such as mindful walking or deep breathing before a meeting—can significantly ease mental strain. Those working remotely can integrate small breaks, such as stepping outside for fresh air or engaging in short stretching exercises, to break the monotony of screen time.

4. Prioritise Rest & Recovery

Quality sleep and regular rest are essential for both physical and mental recovery. Create a bedtime routine that promotes relaxation, such as reading, journalling, or avoiding screens before sleep. Taking micro-breaks during the day can also help prevent mental exhaustion. If working from home, schedule structured breaks to step away from screens and reduce digital fatigue.

5. Seek Support from Community

Social support plays a crucial role in overcoming burnout. Talking to friends, family, or colleagues about your feelings can provide emotional relief and new perspectives. Joining a peer support group or connecting with like-minded individuals can also help reduce feelings of isolation. For remote workers, engaging in virtual check-ins with colleagues or joining professional networks can foster connection and reduce loneliness.

6. Reassess Goals & Expectations

Burnout can sometimes stem from unrealistic personal or professional goals. Take time to evaluate what truly matters to you and adjust your expectations accordingly. Ask yourself: Are these goals sustainable? Do they align with my values? Making small, realistic adjustments can help create a healthier balance. If working from home, set daily or weekly goals to create structure and maintain motivation.

A person seeking professional support from Ashore Wellness counselling, sitting in therapy room with the therapist.

When to Seek Professional Support

If burnout symptoms persist, seeking professional mental health support can be beneficial. A mental health professional can help process underlying causes, such as trauma or self-worth struggles, and provide tailored coping strategies.

Free Mental Health Support Services in Australia

If you are experiencing burnout and need immediate support, consider reaching out to the following free resources:

  • Lifeline Australia – 13 11 14 (24/7 crisis support)
  • Beyond Blue – 1300 22 4636 (mental health support and resources)
  • Headspace (for young adults) – 1800 650 890
  • MensLine Australia – 1300 789 978 (for men’s mental health support)

Professional Counselling at Ashore Wellness

Burnout is not just about work—it is about how we relate to ourselves and the pressures we place upon our lives. If you find yourself struggling with burnout, perfectionism, or emotional exhaustion, seeking therapy can be a transformative step toward healing. At Ashore Wellness, our therapists offer multiple therapeutic approaches tailored to your needs.

Khai-Chia Teoh – Registered ACA Counsellor

Khai specialises in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which can be highly effective for burnout. CBT helps identify and reframe unhelpful thought patterns that contribute to stress and self-imposed pressure, while ACT focuses on accepting difficult emotions and committing to actions that align with personal values.

Nick Koyang – Accredited Social Worker & Narrative Therapist

Nick takes a Narrative Therapy approach, which helps clients externalise their burnout experiences and separate their identity from stress. By exploring personal stories, clients can redefine their relationship with work, self-worth, and expectations, leading to a more balanced and empowering perspective on life.

By offering different therapeutic options, Ashore Wellness allows you to choose the approach that resonates best with you. If you are ready to take the next step, book a session with Ashore Wellness or contact us at 0468 863 690 for a confidential discussion.

You do not have to face burnout alone—support is available, and recovery is possible.

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